The Technique of Kissing.
“I never knew the technique of kissing, I never knew the thrill I could get from your touch; I never knew much, oh look at me now!”
Frank Sinatra
This is an area in a loving, ordinarily sexually healthy relationship that can fall away into nothingness if not properly looked after. During a sexual encounter with your beloved, if you're not thinking about kissing them and indeed enjoying the prospect and execution of a perfect kiss, then you're going to have problems down the line.
Why kissing?
Well we all know that kissing often leads to other things, and this isn't just a cultural thing. There are things passed to each other during a kiss that are among some of the most chemically complex pheromones in the human body; this must be why it usually starts with a kiss.
And this is the primary reason why you must keep the kiss alive in your relationship. It becomes too easy to just slide into bed and have sex without much effort involved, and it's often in cases like this that you will actually find that one side of the couple is probably not that interested.
If you're a guy reading this then you may have been told that you don't kiss and hug enough or something like that. It is a fact (sad as it is) that men do not behave in the same way emotionally as women, and they are far less likely to enjoy kissing and hugging as much as they are going to relish the act of sexual intercourse. However, if you want your relationship to go anywhere, or you just want to hang onto it, then you need to get over your hang-ups and give her some loving!
When should you kiss?
You might think that it's obvious, but it certainly isn't. Again, this is advice for the men primarily. If you want to warm up your woman you need to speculate a little throughout the day in order to get what you want (and boy oh boy you'll get it alright).
It isn't all about kissing during foreplay you see. You should take your woman and kiss her passionately occasionally throughout the day if you can, but resist the urge to do anything else unless it's offered freely. This technique works out great if you have a family and you cannot get to each other properly until the end of the day anyway; it's a great way of building sexual tension.
Don't badger the boys
This is a little advice for the ladies out there reading this article. When it comes to kissing your guy the same rules apply as above pretty much, but you need to do it about half as much. This is very important for one vital reason – you will eventually annoy your man! Too much kissing with the majority of men is a turn off and they simply don't want it. You should still build tension and you should always introduce the idea of sex with a few kisses, but if you want him to sit around with you afterwards hugging and kissing then you'll probably have no luck.
It's all about compromise, sex and good kissing!
